“Why are Christians, of all people, so shy about advancing religious arguments?”
I’m glad you asked. Because there’s nothing I like better than ascribing dubious motives to people other than myself. Not only does it make them look bad, but it also reflects well on me. For instance, if an atheist says to a Christian: “You only do good because you’re afraid of going to hell!” it not only sullies the Christian’s faith, but it also implies the atheist does good because righteousness sits on his soul like dappled sunlight on a mountain stream. Or if a socialist says, “You capitalists only care about money!” it simultaneously dismisses any idea capitalists might care about, say, freedom, and suggests that socialists aren’t really plotting to get their blood-red claws on every scrap of power they can accumulate.
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Maybe reticent Christians are afraid of advancing religious arguments because it sounds unsophisticated. It makes people think you’re some kind of rube so you don’t get invited to the good parties. Isn’t that the whole point of Christianity? Like when Jesus says, “Come unto me all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will sneak you into the Vanity Fair after-Oscars bash.”
Or maybe some Christians are like kids who are still pretending to believe in Santa Claus even after they've stumbled on the Santa costume hidden at the bottom of Dad’s underwear drawer. Why tell the truth and risk missing out on a new Playstation? Likewise, even after you figure out this whole God thing is a scam, pretending you believe drives the trad girls wild.
To be fair, there really is something about matter-based, scientific—even pseudo-scientific—explanations that simply sounds more serious than theology, even when the explanations are completely ridiculous. Freudianism was all the rage when I was a kid, essentially because it translated spirit into flesh. “To me the derivation of religious needs from the helplessness of the child and a longing for its father seems irrefutable.” What was Freud’s irrefutable proof? A few conversations with a handful of Victorian neurotics. Absurd—but it sounded good. You can see your father. God? Not so much.
I read a book once that argued our sense of beauty is an evolved trait. We find the savannah lovely because we were apes there—that was actually one of the arguments. And I thought, yeah, and we find sunrise beautiful because predators roam the night. And sunset is beautiful because, uh, some other reason. I mean, the whole thing was idiotic, and yet still—still, it sounded more realistic somehow than “Maybe we find creation beautiful because it declares the glory of God.” Which is obviously true!
Matter is very there. Spirit is invisible. Maybe that’s what gives material explanations their apparent weight. And yet, the experience of being human continually confirms the mysterious presence at its source. Shouldn’t we, like the stars, declare his glory?
Love, Dad
We also seem to be imbedded in an “expert culture” where it is only appropriate to speak on things you are thoroughly versed in. So the fear Mona mentioned above I believe comes from feeling ill-equipped. After all, our public schools fully deprived us of learning to integrate matter and spirit (and I’m sure even some religious private schools grew more secular with the culture). It’s actually more like being told from a young age that Santa is not real, only to find out as an adult that he actually was. It’s totally backwards and disorienting. But the possible solution to inject more religious belief in our irreligious institutions (like in Oklahoma) sounds good but will that work?
A line sung by Lee Ann Womack, from a Mark Daniel Sanders song says, “I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean.”
I think some people need that more than others. They appear to need to not only see, but FEEL the immensity of the oceans, of Earth, and of the universe. And it’s best to be there alone, because the Lord works more through whispers than shouts. I quote John Denver often, because it’s true: talk to God and listen to the casual reply. But you have to listen.
Maybe all the noise from atheists is because they want to drown out the whispers they fear really do come from the Almighty? 🤔