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Jennifer M's avatar

This conversation just gets better and better. I've been uncomfortable with the whole 'Trad' movement without being able to fully articulate why. Of course I think it's great to be a traditional mom and wife, but after reading this letter I begin to think it is the exaltation of the role over the one who created us for it. I really am coming to understand that our most important role is child of God and to spend time deep in His presence and word and to dwell in the community of believers leads us to who we truly are to be in the time we live. Thanks for everything both of you write!

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My wife likes to say that the present age of wokeness and selfish ideologies is a variant of something as old as time; the ability to say “Oh, that explains it all…I don’t have to think any more!”. (Yes, Andrew isn’t the only one who married “up”). By surrendering to whatever feelings and pieties du jour appear, one doesn’t have to waste time with all that character formation, self examination and attempting to improve by practicing Jesus’ admonition to “Love God…and love your neighbor as yourself”. In other words, simply emptying oneself and filling it with God and agape love is hard work and requires a lifetime of reflection, sacrifice (of self and desires) and constant self-awareness, not to satisfy each desire, but to decide whether you are on the right path, or whether you are following that road made by the Good Intentions Paving Company and asking “Where are we going and why am I in this hand basket?”

Frederica (sp?) Matthews-Green stated that prior to her conversion, she came to realize that no matter how much she self-actualized and empowered herself, that her god would never be any taller than 5’2”. All of this running away from Truth and attempting to make “your truth” is taking that fruit from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil and devouring it, turning it into a pie and offering it to others. Down that path is the moral relativism that ruins and condemns and replaces the Truth with “my truth”.

Excellent letters particularly the last few days, both father and son, (no relation).

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